How do you keep the creative fire in your relationship with your business, your partner, and your health ALIVE years after saying YES to the commitments in your life?! That’s what SEASON 3 Is ALL about! BIG. FXCKING. ENERGY. Hosted by Chief Cat Herder Shelby Ring, we’ve hand-picked some of our favorite founders, creative artists, & educators to teach us a thing or two about amplifying the BIG FXCKING ENERGY this life demands of us. Join us in some real talk stories and step into your biggest, most expansive expression of yourself. These episodes are always practical, humorous, honest, playful, and designed to inspire, challenge, and surround you with that little extra ”F*ck yeah!!” to be unafuckingpologetically you in your business…relationships…sexuality...ALL OF IT. LEGGO! #therubyhour
Episodes
Tuesday Apr 28, 2020
Tuesday Apr 28, 2020
Are you an introvert finding yourself in an extroverted role in your job? This episode is for you! Erica Peper, founder of Peper Events, shares her journey on how to rock a luxury wedding planning service here in Charleston as an introvert.
In this episode, Erica shares:
- moving across the country
- learning to make new friends as a grown-ass woman
- some practical ways she likes to recharge after a big extroverted wedding weekend
Erica Peper On The Ruby Hour Show Notes:
1:02 Meet Erica Peper!
4:15 What herding kindergarteners and groomsmen have in common
5:30 Being an introvert in an extroverted job position
7:10 How to get your energy back after a draining work event
8:01 How to generate additional business from a “One Hit Wonder” industry
13:03 The real cost of going with “a good deal” instead of trusting your gut
15:55 The power of working with your squad
17:15 How to spread your baby-bird wings when you’re a grown-ass adult
18:58 How to not pay people to be your friends when you’re twenty-something
21:48 How to create an inclusive, collaborative community with partners in your industry
26:28 How to deliver exceptional service when shit hits the fan
33:13 Advice to couples when having sticky conversations about budget and family involvement
35:29 How to wheel and deal to get exactly what you want on your wedding day
39:53 Erica’s number one regret on her wedding day
41:00 That time Shelby gunned down all her bridesmaids
Visit Erica's website and check her out at http://peperevents.com/services/
Tuesday Apr 21, 2020
Tuesday Apr 21, 2020
Have you ever experienced physical pain from something that has emotionally hurt you? I think we can all say yes to that one. Today, we’ve brought in massage therapist Mark Foil. We have experienced his amazing work at first hand and can truly testify to this massage guru’s words.
In this episode, we dig deep into:
- how emotional trauma can trigger certain parts of our bodies
- how self-care is so important to someone who cares for others all day long
- and an amazing story about one of Mark’s most special patients.
Mark Foil On The Ruby Hour Show Notes
00:46 Meet Mark Foil
2:00 Origin of becoming a massage therapist
7:14 Recognizing the energy and tension of a patient’s body
11:13 How emotional trauma can physically affect your body
15:12 How Mark decompresses after a long day of taking care of other people
18:24 Energy forcefield
22:50 Energetically traveling back in time with clients
27:45 Mark’s dream client
33:49 Mark’s cold-blooded patient
42:16 How Mark enjoys winding down from a long day
43:47 The secret life of Mark
47:54 Balancing energy for self-care
Contact Mark Foil at markfoiljr@gmail.com to book an appointment with him!
Tuesday Apr 14, 2020
Tuesday Apr 14, 2020
Ever wondered what goes on behind DJ booths? We’re breaking it down *wink wink* with David Fox who shares his DJ experience at weddings and behind the scenes. We take it way back with our friend David and may even get a little off-topic…multiple times.
In this episode, David talks about:
-the secrets to becoming the best DJ
-why being a good MC is so important
-and the inappropriate middle school trickery that got him to where he is today
David Fox On The Ruby Hour Show Notes
00:45 - Meet David Fox
1:47 - Origin of becoming a DJ?
5:00 - How to find legit employees that match your company
8:00 - If looks could kill: The secret to making a fantastic impression with your clients
11:55 - How to get comfortable using a microphone
17:03 - Shelby’s lav mic nightmare
20:23 - David’s videographer horror stories
26:40 - How to make David uncomfortable
32:33 - David’s three movies he’d take on a desert island
34:36 - Lord of the rings impressions and such
36:40 - David’s craziest nature story
37:20 - Boydholes
40:20 - Would you rather
42:17 - What DJs go through on wedding days
46:45 - A walk down David’s middle school memory lane
49:08 - The flasher
49:30 - David’s spirit animal
Visit the BunnDJ website and check them out at https://bunndjcompany.com/ and https://www.instagram.com/bunndjchs/?hl=en
Tuesday Apr 07, 2020
Tuesday Apr 07, 2020
If you’ve ever been in a role of leadership, yet haaaaate confrontation — this episode is for you. In today’s episode, we talk with Haley Kelly — mama of 2 little ones, and one of the most brilliant and soulful power-house planners here in our city.
If you’ve ever wondered how to maneuver:
- scaling your business while balancing your home life and friendships,
- giving yourself permission to slow down and take time to recharge,
- how the heck to stay relevant in this #insta social media era
You’re gonna wanna jump in this episode.
Listen now!
Haley Kelly On The Ruby Hour Show Notes:
00:38 Who is Haley Kelly?
1:40 How did you get to where you are today?
3:50 How to balance being a mom and a business owner
7:55 Working your way from the ground up
10:21 Working as a full-service wedding planner
12:21 Haley Kelly’s mantra to live by
13:55 Haley Kelly’s happy place
15:22 What the heck is a babymoon?
16:08 How to be assertive while hating conflict?
20:36 Haley Kelly’s lady squad
23:30 How to launch and scale a wedding planning business
27:12 How to stay relevant on social media
29:00 Best advice for a couple planning a wedding
31:08 How do you like to unwind?
32:14 Behind the scenes wedding stories
35:23 Haley Kelly’s wedding day
37:38 Wedding venues in Charleston, SC
40:27 Tips for handling family involvement in your wedding plan
Tuesday Mar 31, 2020
Tuesday Mar 31, 2020
Did you ever have teacup parties underwater? Today we introduce you to an alternate reality, the world of Leigh Webber. She combined her childhood love of water and her passion for photography into a successful business here in Charleston! In this episode, we talk about having an unusual service offering, adapting to constantly changing environments as a photographer, and becoming unique to your social media viewers in a world where anyone can take a picture.
The Ruby Hour With Leigh Webber Show Notes:
00:32 Who is Leigh Webber?
1:53 Why underwater photography is a totally different world
3:07 How this creative form of photography took on a life of its own
6:00 Diving into the unknown process of underwater photography
11:40 From a water baby to becoming an underwater photographer
12:08 What’s one of your favorite memories with water growing up?
13:16 Working with first-timers during an underwater shoot
15:25 How to stand out in a world where anyone can take a picture
18:58 How to adapt to changes that come with photographing underwater
22:05 The difference in shooting in the water versus on land
29:46 Keys to owning your own business and taking chances
31:06 Working with people who have a similar vibe and love what you love
33:09 Rolling with the punches during a shoot
35:18 What’s your happy place?
36:56 The struggle of traveling with heavy ass cameras
41:20 How to set yourself up to succeed as a photography business owner
Check out more of Leigh's work at https://www.leighwebber.com
Tuesday Mar 24, 2020
Wednesday Mar 18, 2020
Wednesday Mar 18, 2020
In today's episode, we interview the elusive animal, PJ Brown -- a brilliant cinematographer who happens to be based out of Charleston. PJ has produced and directed commercial content, music videos, and is also a long time friend in the wedding filming world.
In this episode we discuss origin stories involving funerals, nudist weddings, and pizza shops-- evaluating the soul values of projects and if that dream client is truly a "dream", and the power of leaving the camera at home to take in the real moment (even when you're in portfolio-worthy places.)
PJ Brown On The Ruby Hour Show Notes:
1:31 Our gigantic guest: Who is PJ Brown?
4:15 Pizza to cinematography: How did you start your journey in cinematography?
11:45 F*ck your gear list, I’ll take an elbow to the face
12:45 If you think everyone’s your client, you’re wrong.
17:00 The key to getting repeat business as a videographer
20:00 Thought Bazooka cameras
25:00 Impromptu Photographers: Family members with iPads
29:00 Is it a photo shoot or a wedding day? Time of your life or waste of money?
36:00 If you were handed a bajillion dollars tomorrow, what would you shoot?
45:45 When you’re not filming, how do you like to relax?
50:30 The face drop
52:00 The best technique with social media as a business owner (if you hate social media)
55:40 What’s the best advice anyone’s ever given to you?
57:00 How can people find you on social?
Check out PJ's incredible portfolio and get to know him more at Life In Rewind and on Instagram at @lifeinrewindfilms!
Tuesday Mar 10, 2020
Tuesday Mar 10, 2020
If you’ve ever had ghost or spirit experiences, and you’ve been scared or “unnerved” of these experiences- this episode is for you. We got weird in this episode and explored some of our personal first-hand experiences “beyond the veil” of our day-to-day lives, as well as discussing the emotional health demands of the event industry (and what you can do to nurture yourself to bounce back quicker.)
Buckle up for this episode.
Meredith Tanton is co-owner and principal designer at Sweet Grass Social -- an exceptional luxury event planning company here in Charleston SC. Meredith and her business partner Jacqueline have been in business for the past 11 years in Charleston and are truly some of the "OG"s of our event community; we've had the privilege of working alongside their incredible team and documenting their gorgeous events for several years now. Without further ado -- I give you the lovely Meredith Tanton!
Tuesday Mar 03, 2020
Tuesday Mar 03, 2020
Going through a rough break-up? Angry at your business partner/printer/boyfriend/toy poodle named Alfred that keeps pooping on your brand new rug? Have an idea that's a little "out there" and you're scared to launch? Are you a millennial launching a business but you think you’re too young, too inexperienced, too _____ to launch your concept?
If any of this is hitting home, this episode is meant for you.
Meet Cole Wadsten, twenty-something millennial entrepreneur, innovator, and founder of The Break Room: Charleston's first ever "rage room."
What's a Rage Room, you ask?
It's exactly what you think it is -- A safe place where you go and smash shit. Choose your unique weapon of choice (crowbar, screwdriver, golf club, baseball bat-- you know, the things fantasies are made of) and then proceed to wail on items such as microwaves, box fans, china, TV's; even cars.
Offering Something A Little Counter-Culture In A Traditional Market
Now, I needn't remind you we're in good ole Charleston, South Carolina -- a land laden with rich Southern tradition and heritage (which overall is a beautiful, beautiful thing), but at times can come with an undercurrent of conformity. So we've got parts of our community still dripping with nepotism, small-minded thinking, and strong resistance to anything considered "different;" then we've got Cole Wadsten over here launching a business that freely encourages letting out not-so-southern-charming emotions while listening to Ludacris. Think he may have ran into a little resistance?
If you have a trail you're meant to blaze in your heart, this episode is for you.
Low on time? Jump to the sections of the episode that appeal to you! Be sure to share in the comments your favorite take away!
1:00 How did The Break Room get started?
1:49 What exactly is a Rage Room?
2:40 What are the biggest take-aways
6:15 Why this doesn't encourage aggressive behavior.
8:42 Instrument of Choice- What you can choose to smash with
10:10 What are the responses from the public from opening a “rage room”?
11:25 How did this idea come about?
14:25 What other things are you up to?
15:10 How do you find and choose people to train who will facilitate the Rage Room?
16:45 The Key to running a tight ship- Don’t Be Weird!
17:50 “Don’t let your food get cold looking at someone else’s plate”
19:10 What is a moment in your life that has contributed most to where you are now?
21:00 Staying in your lane as a millennial: How to avoid getting caught comparing your life with your millennial friends
25:45 Being a twenty-something in 2020:
26:35 1990s Babies - How to cope with being in "young" and in business
27:49 The one question you should be asking yourself about running your business as a twenty-something year old.
31:00 Playing on Neopets in 2002 as a 12 year old compared to sexting in 2020
33:28 How being young in business is an ASSET, not a liability, and the power of picking up the phone
34:00 the most sought after skillset for the next generation's workforce
37:00 Ditching your phone in social situations, and mocktails: The lost social skillset and upcoming trends of the millennial generation
38:30 Why YOLO is bullshit: Stewarding your life well
39:05 What’s been your journey having a disruptive company in a culturally conservative market?
42:00 What advice do you have for someone who has their own disruptive idea?
46:30 How to find Cole Wadsten and Rage Charleston?
Visit The Break Room and schedule your smash party online or social -- @ragecharleston or on their website: https://www.tbrcharleston.com
Wednesday Dec 18, 2019
Wednesday Dec 18, 2019
Have you ever had that moment where you're stuffing your face with Nutella and Ritz crackers during a His Dark Materials binge-fest, and then one of those horrific starving children in Africa commercials comes on?
You look down, spoonful of Nutella trembling in-hand, and you have that moment where you feel like an utter and absolute asshole? If you've ever felt that pang of oh-my-gosh-what-am-i-doing-with-my-life-i' m-such-a-cold-hearted-lizard, I made this episode just for you.
Meet your new girl crush and today's podcast guest, Hope Caldwell. Founder of KLH Group here in Charleston, Hope is an advocate for bringing your soul back into the workspace (and especially corporate Fortune 500 workspace.)
This woman gets CEOs of multibajillion dollar organizations to put their hands in the dirt (literally) one half of the day, and then on the other half of the day throws the most baller 5-star gala event you've ever been to in your life.
In this episode, get ready to be liberated from the old "martyrdom thinking" that you have to take a vow of poverty to be a soulful person - and step into the truth: that you need to be wildly successful so you can radically bless and serve the things that light your heart on fire (and have your Nutella, too.)